There is such a double standard for women who are dating, or single and trying to date.  There are the overly sexual women who men seem to fawn over, but if you act like that, you may not be aattracting the type of man you are really interested.  However if you don’t do anything, it’s like men can’t see you, and you get overlooked (probably by the voluptuous blond in the short skirt sitting on the bar next to you.)  flirting techniques are different for men and women, and even from woman to woman.  Mastering the right kind of flirting takes practice.