I used to do this all the time too.  I’d try for the cute girls (sevens, maybe) and I knew that I could go home with a girl every time.  But I wasn’t getting the girls I really wanted.  That’s why I had to start approaching them and getting over my fear.Here is what most guys do when they decide to approach the super-hot women at the club.  They say, ‘Hang on, let me get warmed up,’ or, ‘I need to get a little buzz going first.’  The truth is that they’re just making excuses and justifying not trying.  You can make a million different excuses not to approach a nine or ten because you’re just scared. Sometimes its hard to find ways on how to get laid.